Stop-Expecting-Too-Much-from-People, Mrs!
At the end of a radio interview when 69 year old , Jewish, Hungarian born Canadian physician Gabor Mate was asked ‘ is there more love in your life now?’ he paused. ‘I think there is more space in my heart for love,’ he said quietly. I think there is more space in our hearts for love when we pass 60. What we do with that space depends on lots of things. And sometimes that space shuts down ! This morning I was deeply disappointed with our village doctor, again. My heart door slammed shut. There seems to be a Berlin Wall wall between us. I cannot communicate with him without judging him, severely. He speaks to me like I'm a teenager with many serious learning challenges. I see in front of me an arrogant adolescent with mother issues! LOL !! I thought I'd stopped judging people !! I'm angry that so many folk in our village seem to suffer, month after month, year after year. Yes I know the difference between healing and curing. A kind encourag